EMOTIONS YOU FELT WHEN YOU WOKE UP

REJECTED

        Rejection is one of the most difficult emotions to deal with both in and out of dreams, and to wake up with a feeling of rejection can be both real and imagined. Many times, a person will feel rejected, simply because of a physical defect they think is not accepted by people.

       Although barely noticeable, just the realization of the defect can drive a person into a deep depression that lasts a lifetime. This feeling of being rejected materializes in dreams, compounding the feeling of rejection.

       While many feelings in dreams of rejection are imagined, there are those who suffer real rejection both in the dream state and in reality. This rejection is brought on by one's own attitude in how you say things and by one's own physical makeup and appearance. These characteristics, whether real or imagined, do haunt and bother us in our dreams. The world is cruel, yet we have to learn how to live in it.

Marriage/Relationship: Feeling rejected after waking from a dream about your marriage hides in an illusion of loss of love in marriage, the intention to have you believing the marriage is beyond saving. With this impression in your mind, a fearful hesitancy occurs where you feel whatever you may say to your spouse will not be heard. It is this all encompassing sense of failure as a partner which has you paralyzed to try to talk issues through. You have this idea you will experience more rejection compounded with disagreements and ill feelings added to the dynamic of the marriage. Try hard anyway.

Friendships: Feeling rejected after waking from a dream about a friendship hides in an illusion of the friendship breaking up, the intention working through emotions of loss and sadness which are affecting you to allow the deterioration of a friendship to fade away. This is when you need step outside of your pride and hurt ego drawing upon what you value in the friendship. Decide whether misunderstandings can be overcome and what you can say or do to discuss and rekindle the core of the friendship.

Family: Feeling rejected after waking from a dream about a family situation hides in an illusion of being at your wits end, the intention to have you emotionally dissociate yourself from the problem. The negative emotion of rejection misleads one to take the easy way out. What would we do without family. Family is the only source of trust you can rely. Take the chance in hearing rejection-sounding, critical comments from the family member. You have to find out the real issues so you can get past the hurts and bring in suggestions to restore the relationship. It's not going to go away. Dialogue.

Career/Workplace: Feeling rejected after waking from a dream about your workplace, career or job position hides in an illusion of ostracism and not fitting in well with others, the intention of emotionally influencing your ability to function at work with this sense of rejection constantly on your mind. This attempt is to cause you to analyze your every word in conversations and become a nervous, hyper-vigilant self conscious wreck. This, of course, will instill doubt in other people's mind about you. You were hired on for the position for your personality, strengths and abilities. Your job is a part of who you are. Be yourself. The detractors and troublemakers will fall into line eventually.

Finances: Feeling rejected after waking from a dream about a financial concern hides in an illusion of sadness, the intention to make you feel even worse wondering why you and money are not the best of friends or well acquainted with one another. The emotion of rejection is, however, a residue emotion felt when much of your employment life has encountered periods of less pay than competitive salaries, having been passed over for salary increases or promotions at higher rates of pay, mistreated and taken advantage of.

Other than having found yourself working for companies that weren't concerned with paying living wages, the problem may be spiritually rooted. A spirit of lack and limitation in the family tree going generations back has had you experience financial lack in the course of your employment history. This requires strong prayer to be released from this type of persecution. Feeling rejected has to do with impacting your sense of self worth, which is precisely how the dark spirit realm wants you to feel, disadvantaged and jinxed for life. Pray continuously to have this broken off from you and your work life. 

(1)  To feel rejected in the natural, but to dream you have obtained favor in your workplace, relationship, marriage, with friends or members of your family represents love, compassion and the willingness to do for others what they cannot do for themselves.

(2)  To dream that you have favor from your superiors at your workplace represents a change or a job promotion.

        (a) *Privileged Circumstances: If you're receiving favorable responses to your requests from your spouse, family, employers, management and friends represents the appreciation and recognition others are showing to you.

THE ILLUSION:  To feel rejected upon waking from a dream hides in an illusion of people not liking you with an attempt to beat down and chip away at the knowledge you have that people do like you. This has been made evident and proven in the favor you're receiving: personal attention, singled out from the group, complimented, bonuses, invitations, unexpected gifts and the like. The illusion through the emotion of feeling rejected is to have you suddenly be uncertain about the regard, respect, affection, fondness and appreciation you've gained in being shown recognition for who you are. These gestures of kindness are yours to claim from your family, spouse and deciding directors at the workplace.

       The message of the dream is showing you that people love you for how humble and gracious you are in the way you help others.

(3)  To receive unusual favor from your fianceé or someone you're involved with represents change and possible marriage.

(4)  To receive unusual favor from your husband or wife represents gifts or an addition to the family.

         (a) *Gifts: If you're receiving surprise after surprise in unexpected gifts and presents from people, to receive unusual favor from your fianceé, spouse, boyfriend/girlfriend, friends and family members represents everyone is realizing how grateful they are to have you in their lives for the person you are. From this point, your life is going to change in a very good way with you receiving many more gifts--gifts in wanting to spend more time with you, talking to you more frequently and expressions of love to you, or the gift of a marriage proposal.

THE ILLUSION:  To feel rejected upon waking from a dream when you see yourself given gifts in a dream hides in an illusion of deception, the intention to have you begin doubting the sincerity and reasons why people are showering you with presents. The illusion emotion wishes you to question and mistrust the motives of the gift givers in attempts to make you feel paranoid and less than genuinely loved. Isn't this a silly trick. Graciously accept gifts from others and know the gifts received are people demonstrating their true fondness and caring for you. Besides, all good things come from God.

       *Good Changes: If you've been ready for things in your life to be more exciting, to receive unusual favor from your husband or wife in a dream represents the gifts of love in demonstrations of affection, loving tenderness and material gifts.

       A new change can be the surprising news that you're going to be blessed with a new baby.

The following examples of dream symbols indicate negative dreams meanings serving as warning dreams to you to make changes:               

(5)  To walk on brown, dry, dead grass represents physical, psychological or emotional problems you may be suffering from and also represents lack of self worth and the feeling that you are rejected. This applies to a relationship, marriage or dissension in the family rooted in childhood experiences.

(6)  To seem to wander and explore aimlessly in a dream also represents loneliness, rejection and a lack of self confidence or self-worth.

(7) To be in a group or a crowd in a dream or to join a group or crowd in a dream represents your fear of aloneness, being rejected or a feeling of inevitably being cast out by others. The group or crowd in the dream is representative of your need to be with others. It also represents your need to be recognized and loved.

(8) To joke with another in a dream represents your need to be seen, heard, noticed and the center of attraction. To joke with another in a dream also represents your way of hiding behind a fear of possible rejection and not being wanted, accepted or included.

(9)  To dream you are eating alone represents feeling alone, and based on what else is going on in your life, rejection with a feeling you do not fit in.

(10) To turn a blank page(s) in a book or magazine represents a reclusive personality: a person who is afraid to take chances and test experiences where one can be accepted. This kind of personality is normally the result of repeated rejection, disappointment or physical, emotional and psychological abuse.

(11) To be separated or quarantined from others in a dream represents fear of rejection or physical illness you may or of which you may not be aware.

(12) To see or be on an island in a dream represents a lack of direction, rejection and abandonment, persecution, bondage and confinement.





UNHAPPY

(1)  To see yourself or another in a dream who looks unhappy and you carry a feeling of unhappiness when awaking represents a need to look more closely into your own personal life to determine what area of your life needs change to reach a deeper sense of fulfillment and joy.

        Unhappiness is one of our most deeply rooted emotions. Memories from childhood influence and control our state of mind in our adult lives producing forlorn, basic unhappy feelings, even when in the company of our loved ones.

        Unhappiness in our youth, young adult and adult lives also is the result of abandonment issues, having felt persecuted and having been made to feel unloved or unwanted in our youth, young adult and adult lives.

        The result of these experiences manifests in our dreams and carries over into our awakened state in our outlooks, attitudes and the way we communicate with others. Often, people associate the unhappiness they feel both awake or in their dream lives to be connected with current experiences. However, most of our unhappy feelings stem from unhappy memories of experiences we now carry throughout our lives.

        The emotional experiences we've suffered in life are memorable. The way to overcome these unhappy emotions is to face them head-on for what they were. Realize there is nothing which can be done about the past. And that God is the only one who can provide the healing to the brokenness in our hearts. Pray to God for yourself and your needs to receive a dissociation of painful memories and emotions put out of your thought life.

(2)  To see yourself or another in a dream looking unhappy represents the need to have a change in attitude about a particular area of life. This may require making some new changes.

        (a) *Too Routine: If you're a person who is open to new things, new ideas and experiences, to see yourself or someone whom you know in a dream looking unhappy represents an area of your life which needs satisfying fulfillment.

THE ILLUSION:  To feel unhappy upon waking from a dream about any given area of your life hides in an illusion of mild depression and sadness, a mistaken illusion of an emotion augmented for the intent of causing you to extend this sense of unhappiness for longer periods of time. In this way, your thought life will be filled with self defeating feelings and begin to interfere with your overall outlook about life.

        The message of the dream is showing you to find this area of your life where fulfillment is missing. In the dream, to help you identify the area in your life that is wanting, study the location of the place, the activities taking place in the dream, others you see in the dream to get an idea of what the other people represent to you, the activities associated with the place you see in the dream and what additional emotions you may have felt in the dream.

(3)  To yawn in a dream represents lack of rest, a lackadaisical attitude and not taking problems and needs seriously. It also represents discontentment and an unhappy relationship which applies to marriage, relationship or the workplace.

Marriage/Relationship: Feeling unhappy upon waking from a dream about marriage or a relationship hides in an illusion of sadness, unhappiness and discontentment, the intention to deceive you into thinking you do not have the answers or ideas within which to improve upon significant relationships.

The intention of the dark dream is to have you mistake a brief emotional experience as the status of the entire personal relationship. Mistakenly taking the emotional waking response as clear-cut evidence is meant to outweigh your ability to think objectively about how to engage yourself in  dialogue conversation with your partner, because you feel torn with emotions getting in the way of real feelings in the relationship.

Career/Workplace: Feeling unhappy upon waking from a dream depicting dream symbols and people connected with your career and workplace hides in an illusion of the emotion of unhappiness, a misleading direction the dream wishes to take you to cause you to begin to look at workplace challenges in exaggerated ways.

Without subjective objectivity to form rational realizations about work issues, you now will begin to feel overwhelmed, self conscious, nervous and tense during work-related interactions. The emotion will have taken over your normal thinking abilities and thrown confusion in the mix. The message of the dream is showing you that you need to separate and shake off any extraneous emotions, look the deception clearing in the face and restudy what you can do to improve and change a situation at the workplace.

       To the Christian: To see a spindle in a dream represents revelation, inspiration, insight and a Word from God revealing the answer to a problem.

(4)  To see a spindle in a dream also represents the spinning of a web of deceit, betrayal or the intent to cause destruction to another. This kind of dream applies to a friend, workplace or someone whom you know.

THE ILLUSION:  To feel unhappy upon waking from a dream with a weaving spindle hides in an illusion of a general overall, unhappy feeling, the intention to confuse you into being reminded of a spinning wheel in a famous fairy tale of which we're familiar. Not so. To see a spinning object in a dream can have positive or negative dream meanings. In this case, because you are a professed Christian, seeing a spindle spinning in a dream is symbolic of a warning dream to let you know there is someone weaving an agenda against you. You need to identify the offending person and handle the matter because the deception involved a friendship, an associate or work.

       To the Christian: To see a spindle in a dream applies to a mate, if you are unequally yoked and suffering an unhappy marriage.

ABANDONED - DESERTED

(1)  To see yourself in a dream as a baby or child being left alone or abandoned represents a feeling of being unloved, disapproved of, neglected and very much alone in the world. It also represents difficult childhood memories, most often as a result of a dysfunctional family.

         (a) *Disapproval: If you're perplexed when you're reminded of childhood memories by events that seem no way related, to see yourself in a dream as a baby or child being left alone or abandoned represents an old hurt which is affecting your present emotions negatively.

THE ILLUSION:  To feel disapproved of upon waking from a dream about personal relationships hides in an illusion of rejection, the intent to direct your emotional life toward widening a greater sense that you aren't worth liking. This is an attempt to have you keenly aware of how you are received by others often gauging their responses toward you, in all situations.

        The message of the dream is showing you that you are a person deserving of love, approval and tender, loving care as much as the next person. You're not as alone as your emotions would have you falsely believe. Your awareness of this trick of the mind through emotions is your clue to catch yourself when these emotions rise, so you can reject, disregard and crush any possible hurtful emotions which will not be allowed to rule your emotional life.

(2)  To see yourself left alone or abandoned as a teen or young adult represents a feeling of limited self esteem and represents why you attempt to solve all problems and situations by your own power, strength and knowledge.

         (a) *Self Discovery: If you're a product of a two-income or single parent household and were often home alone, to see yourself left alone or abandoned as a teen or young adult represents incomplete self esteem.

THE ILLUSION:  To feel disapproved of upon waking from a dream about relationships hides in an illusion of feeling neglected or abandoned, the intent to deceive you through emotions that there must be a reason why you feel less loved than you would hope. The dark dream is meant to chip away at you to cause you to feel unloved and unlovable most of the time. In this way, you hesitate to seek advice to talk about your feelings.

        The message of the dream is showing you that this lack of self confidence is causing you to become mistaken in believing you're unable to ask for the assistance and help of others. You are not required to do every single thing all by yourself. Reach out to others for help you may need. Balance some of the stress you unnecessarily place on yourself to do everything yourself. Self control includes knowing when to go to others.             

(3)  To see yourself left alone or abandoned as a teen or young adult also represents persecution, despair and the dejected feeling of being alone. This kind of dream causes both emotional and physical stress. And if a reoccurring dream, please seek out a highly blessed Christian counselor for professional help.

        (a) *Downtrodden: If you're feeling like a motherless child and real alone in the world, to see yourself left alone or abandoned as a teen or young adult represents feeling persecuted and in despair for the loneliness you feel most of the time.

THE ILLUSION:  To feel disapproved of upon waking from a dream hides in an illusion of depression and a sensation of heaviness upon you, the intent to deceive your thoughts into thinking you've got some real emotional issues. This is called emotional persecution and it is not coming from your own mind, believe it or not. You need to pray more for yourself to be released from these types of emotional attacks, so you can have more peace of mind returned to you. Your physical energy levels, moods and sleep and stress-eating patterns need to be regenerated.

        The dream message is showing you that you've got to try to fight off this depression and try to do healthy and proactive activities to step out of the emotional stress you're experiencing. Seek doing activities you find enjoyable activities, getting out of the house more frequently. There's a world of people out there who are feeling the same way you do and could use a warm hello, a kind word or a smile from you.

FEAR - AFRAID

(1)  To awaken from a dream feeling afraid represents a warning to you to identify what it is that is causing you to feel fearful. This is a dream sent to help you take care of something in your life that needs addressing and your attention.

        (a) *Identify the Problem: If you've woke up from a dream feeling fearful and do have some matters you need to clear up, to awaken from a dream feeling afraid represents a personal issue, marital problem, relationship issue, problem at work, health concern or financial matter you need to see to and begin to take care of. It's the unknown and worrying about the possible outcome which has you apprehensive about beginning to handle the matter, at all. The matter still will require your attention. Get advice from others, emotional support from family and friends and go about taking care of things in your life.

(2)  Threatened in a dream. To dream you are threatened in a dream in any way and you experience fear, panic, terror and scream or yell in the dream when you wake up represents bondage, persecution, unusual pressures and demands brought against you. This involves your job, relationship, marriage and in some cases involves a bad habit that you are physically bound to.

        (a) *Human Bondage: If you're feeling threatened and trapped in a dream represents a situation in your life that has you in a constant state of panic, fear and danger.

THE ILLUSION:  To feel afraid upon waking from a dream hides in an illusion of feeling terrified and alarmed, the intent to drive you to believe your situation is beyond changing. If you are in a personal relationship or work relationship where you often feel panicked and afraid, then your emotions when you awoke from the dream are mixing truth with lies in that there is a serious problem, but not a situation which would call for you to scream and yell were you part of a disagreement. 

       To be in a marriage which is controlling, stress-ridden and suffocates your sense of independence and freedom to do what you like to do when you hope to do them, because your every action has to be cleared with the spouse or employer first, this is not a conducive relationship which promotes an exchange of ideas, respect, trust or satisfaction. To live in a constant state of fear where physical abuse is a real possibility is a life overrun by someone else's bad behavior affects your any secure feeling of safety, diminishes your conviction you'll have the emotional strength to endure and questions your level of personal enjoyment of your own life.

        The message of the dream is showing you that whatever is causing you to feel enslaved by another emotionally, physically or financially is placing abnormally high levels of stress on your life and you have to come to a flash point that tells you to make plans to leave the situation.

        (b) *Career/Job: If you're facing inordinate amounts of stress caused by fluctuating, sudden changes to company policies, a manager, employer, co-workers and workload, to dream you are threatened in a dream in any way where you experience fear, panic, terror, scream or yell in a dream represents the pressures of feeling caught in nearly unending, inordinate amounts of undue stress at the workplace.

THE ILLUSION:  To feel afraid upon waking from a dream portraying dream symbols of a work-related issue hides in an illusion of fear of unknown circumstances and events, the intent to frighten you into mistakenly believing that the position of employment is beyond reckoning any solution. It is all of what the unexpected and strange events represents that this type of dark dream is working on your emotional state of mind. Reconsider the realities of the drawbacks you are actually aware of occurring at the workplace. Then, decide if in the long term, such employment will continue to impact you negatively.

        The message of the dream is telling you to look at the work environment situation and ask yourself if this environment and the level of job satisfaction is really for you. It's taking a toll on your nerves and stamina. Whose job satisfaction is more important, the company or yours…

        (c) *Relationship: If you're in a relationship, to dream you're threatened in a dream in any way and you experience fear, panic, terror, scream or yell in a dream represents as you might think -- a bad... relationship you're feeling trapped in. The message of the dream is showing you that you're really not well matched with your significant other. This is a relationship where he or she is not going to be there for you in long term.

THE ILLUSION:  To feel afraid upon waking from a dream hides in an illusion of fearful anxiety, the intent to put you in a constant state of tension and apprehension the reminder to on hyper-vigilant alert ready to hear critical, sarcastic, belittling remarks directed to you, which have you in ever-present worry and dread. This is a relationship that has real problems; much of the important areas of the relationship are missing.

In order to persevere through the duration of the relationship, however, it is you who must decide to stay as mentally strong as you can, until an opening presents itself to separate on relatively civil terms. It's helpful to consider the type of relationship is, yet it is just as important to know how to endure and synchronize the right timing within which to act upon changing things.

        (d) *Unhealthy Habit: If you're using addictive substances in your life, to dream you're threatened in a dream in any way and you experience fear, panic, terror, scream or yell in a dream represents emotional, health and money problems you're letting yourself in for.

THE ILLUSION:  To feel afraid upon waking from a dream about personal habits hides in an illusion of afraid of being caught doing certain activities, the intent to oppressively add more feelings of guilt and worry on you. In this state of mind, you will more readily use decreasing stress by turning to the habit which is the real problem.

        The message of the dream is showing you that without you seeing it coming upon you, you'll find yourself living quite on the edge for the effect substance abuse will have on your finances, health and emotions. This is a warning dream for you to direct your energies toward recognizing a need to use your strength of mind to recondition yourself toward trying to resist the urges and modify different approaches during the strong temptations.

LOVE:

        Although love and hate are our strongest emotions, unlike hate, lust and desire, love manifests itself the least in our dreams even though it is our strongest emotion. From childhood, we are conditioned to love, show love, wish to be loved and desire love. The inherent trait follows us from childhood through our adult lives all the way to the end of our lives and wanting to be loved is a part of the spiritual DNA given to us by God.

        How do you recognize love in a dream? When in a dream you see a loved one, such as a mother/father, sister/brother, relative, spouse, fianceé, friend and loved ones approach you or reach their hand out toward you, smile or give you a type of gift, assist, counsel or help you in some way in the dream, all represent compassion, love and devotion through expressions of love in dreams.

(1)  Deep or medium blue represents the love, sacrifice, devotion, caring, and compassion you openly display towards friends and family members. If in the dream the blue is a deep royal blue represents wisdom, purity, revelation, good news and a breakthrough you are about to receive from God. The breakthrough involves your family, health or job. A deep royal blue in a dream represents a miracle you have been praying for, especially if there is a deep royal blue stone or you are wearing or touch something that is deep royal blue in the dream.

        (a) *Devotion: If you're closely involved in the relationships of family, to see deep or medium blue of a room, sky, clothing worn, a blue object or a precious sapphire gem represents a clear confirmation to you that your loved ones see you for the person you are and love you for it. This is recognition of the many things you do to help them out because of your love for family.

THE ILLUSION:  To feel very much loved upon waking from a dream hides in an illusion of surprise at the idea of being so very much loved, the intent to diminish you fully and completing believing you are this loved by your family and friends. This is a dark dream attempt to insinuate doubt about how loved you are. People are recognizing the special person you are, are appreciative of your demonstrations of love toward them and the message of the dream is from God confirming to you the truth of the message.

        The message of the dream is telling you that whatever sacrifices you've made, and the caring and compassion you've shown people indicates a level of wisdom you're developing to impart to others and also for an application in your own life—to love yourself more.

        (b) *What a Revelation: If you're seeking an answer to a situation you're facing, to see deep or medium blue of a room, sky, clothing worn, a blue object or a precious sapphire gem represents a revelation of the answer to the problem or situation you're facing will be forthcoming shortly. Be conscious of future dreams which will piece together the answer to you. The dream scene may unfold the answer outright or there may be follow-up dreams which have layers to them that will have to be explored and interpreted.

THE ILLUSION:  To feel very much loved upon waking from a dream hides in an illusion of questioning truth, the intent to detract from the beauty of the true message of the dream; which is, yes, you really are loved by many.
Deep blue in color is symbolic of breakthrough; this then is a breakthrough realization to be received by you to put into your heart that you need to believe you are as loved as you are. And because there is a God in Heaven who sees what you're going through, knows your needs and loves you for your strength of character and perseverance despite the circumstances, God is blessing you with the solution/answer to the problem you're facing.

        The message of the dream is showing you that help in information will be shown to you in future dreams and the situation will be resolved by the distance or numbers you see while viewing the dreams. Look forward to Episode 2, 3…for further guidance from the heart of God.

         To the Christian: If you're in prayer for a need, to see deep or medium blue of a room, sky, clothing worn, a blue object or a sapphire gem represents revelatory good news will be received to answer and give you spiritual direction.

THE ILLUSION:  To feel very much loved upon waking from a dream hides in an illusion of vague disbelief, the intent of the dark realm of emotional interference—its attempt to cause you doubt that you must be mistaken in feeling this wonderful over a mere dream about to love and to be loved.

        The message of the dream is confirming to you that your prayers are on the altar of God awaiting the command for a move of God to work for good in your life. You're receiving a breakthrough in your family, health or job and are to stay in prayer believing on the promise shown you through the dream message. Hope is in the Lord. Claim God's promise to you and receive your blessing in prayerful thanksgiving, praise and song.

        (c) *Health Breakthrough: If you're in need of an improvement in your health condition, to see deep or medium blue in clothing worn in a dream or you touch a blue gem stone represents a breakthrough in your health that will happen suddenly.

THE ILLUSION:  To feel very much loved upon waking from a dream relating to health concerns hides in an illusion of wishful thinking, the intent of a dark spirit of emotional persecution, an attempt to confuse you into thinking this dream was not a dream from God. It was. And suddenly as if in an instant, your health will be receiving unprecedented breakthrough physical healing from the God who loves you.

        The message of the dream is telling you that a major good change about health is coming soon. You'll be feeling physically much stronger, healthier with emotional, social and physical successes in your health being restored to you.              

        (d) *Seems Miraculous: If you're hoping that a miracle of regeneration of health would happen, to see deep medium clothing being worn by you in a dream, you touch a blue gem stone or touch deep blue clothing represents the certainty a major change in a health condition will occur for you, seemingly viewed as  miraculous.

THE ILLUSION:  To feel very much loved upon waking from a dream about a long-standing hope for improved health hides in an illusion a dampening of your conviction to accept the message of the dream as not entirely true.
Miracles can and do happen. There is no impossibility with God. Who are we to set limitations on what God can and cannot do. When you have a health condition and your heart is right with God, God loves blessing His people.

        The message of the dream is showing you there is real hope for a sudden improvement and reversal of your medical condition. This is because you received a God Dream promising you healing. God cannot lie. His word is true. Be of good courage, your redemption draws near.
              
(2)  Just as love is the strongest emotion, the color red is the color that depicts strong emotion to maintaining balance and harmony in family. Unlike the natural world where the color red signifies "stop," in the spiritual world, the color red signifies sacrifice. Just like warm, friendly faces and physical actions can be a sign of love in dreams, the primary colors of red, blue, green, orange, yellow and white in dreams are all symbolic of colors reflecting the power of love.

        (a) *Sacrifice: If you're feeling as though your personal free time, physical energies and money are being spent on others' needs, to see the color red in clothing worn or a red object in a dream represents the strong emotion you have for your need to maintain a sense of balance and harmony in your life in doing what you can to see that those of your loved ones' lives are safe, secure and good.

THE ILLUSION:  To feel very much loved upon waking from a dream about family and loved ones hides in an illusion of an awareness you are loved by others, yet it has cost you. This is an attempt to use emotions of vague bitterness toward those of whom you have helped. You have and are a cheerful giver, who enjoys bettering the lives of others. Reject this false emotion of resentment; it has no place in your life.

        The message of the dream is telling you that it is God above who sees your loving heart's efforts and investment in helping others. It may be that, many times, you feel overwhelmed and pulled in many directions, however, what you may want to instill in your own mind is that you're blessed by God to be a blessing to others, sharing your resources to those whom you love deeply.              

HATE:

        Next to love, hate, jealousy, envy, bitterness and resentment are our strongest emotions and surface the most in our dreams with hate as the forerunner. Yet differing from reality, hate in dreams is unmistakable in both its actions and consequences.

        In dreams, our personality takes on a more profound persona and hate is generally played out in a more threatening, destructive and violent manner with a force, strength and determination you do not possess in the natural, as though your very life depended on winning. In many dreams, it is as though it is not you performing these strong actions, but you're a witness to another personality performing the actions.

        It is not unusual to wake up totally exhausted and fatigued from the dream experience. Some of the causes that produce the effects in hate dreams are bad marriages, rough divorce, one-sided separations, unhealthy, broken relationships, hostile and stressful work environments or financial problems. Because we're able to play out these hate dreams in a dream state, we are able to better control our psychological states of mind and use appropriate actions in real life.

(1)  To feel hatred in a dream represents a need to modify your thinking about a person or group. It also represents a warning to do something about the situation you find yourself in and to make plans to reconcile with another or leave the situation.

(2)  To feel the emotion of hate in a dream toward someone whom you know represents persecution and a bondage to that person of whom you are bound to in the natural, but can find no way of escape. It also represents your natural feelings surfacing in your dreams pertaining to a relationship or your job.

(3)  To feel the emotion of hate against a stranger whom you do not know represents a type of prejudice and how you have stereotyped that person or a particular group of people.

         (a) *Intensity of Hatred: If you're beginning to catch yourself stereotyping other people's sexual orientation, alternative lifestyles, ethnic groups and/or customs and traditions, to feel the emotion of hatred in a dream represents your bias and prejudices. If you're one who doesn't think before making what other's perceive as insensitive remarks about other peoples and groups also represents your need to become more aware and more politically correct in what your statements will be in interactions.

THE ILLUSION:  To feel hate upon waking from a dream with dream symbols of ethnic peoples or particular groups hides in an illusion of disgust and anger, the intent to have you believe that your thinking patterns about certain groups of peoples is acceptable, when it is not. Prejudicial bias and comments perpetuate the cycle of hatred, misunderstanding and racism. Be careful before you are the one who is stigmatized and marked as a bigot. You may soon find yourself losing your friends and acquaintances, feeling very much ostracized like the groups you single out and speak negatively about.

        The message of the dream is urging you to re-educate yourself in developing more compassion, thinking before you speak.

         (b) *Trapped/Job-Relationship: If you're not quite loving the job you're in, to feel the emotion of hatred in a dream represents feeling practically chained to your desk at work.

        The message of the dream is showing you that you feel unmistakably confined in your present work environment.

        If you're less than satisfied in a relationship, to feel the emotion of hate in a dream represents how you hate feeling the strain of commitment to the relationship.

        The message of the dream is showing you your true feelings of being restricted and not entirely free to be yourself or do the things you like to do within the relationship.             

         (c) *Prejudice: If you often have less than flattering ideas about strangers you see everywhere you go, to feel the emotion of hate in a dream represents a prejudice you hold against certain types and physical appearances of people in general.

THE ILLUSION:  To feel hate upon waking from a dream hides in an illusion of adamant, insistent preconceived bias, the emotion's intent to draw you into continuing in your present line of thinking about your relationship, job, financial situation or culture clash bias against certain groups of peoples.

        The message of the dream is showing you it's a time for you to hope that other people you do not know are thinking or saying unfavorable things about you when they look at your physical appearance, demeanor, remarks about relationship, job, finances and groups. You could be more open-minded and embrace other peoples and cultures, rather than have your attitudes allowed into your dreams, as well.

REGRET - SORROW - SORRY

(1)  To see yourself in a dream feeling regret for something you may have said or done to another which caused emotional pain represents the remorse on your part you feel for this action.

        The dream is a message to make amends and reconcile the situation with the person you have hurt, before it is too late and a break in the relationship occurs.

(2)  To see red, scarlet or crimson in a dream represents sorrow, remorse, and your own need for forgiveness for something you have done to another, someone you love or care a great deal about. The dissension, breakup or problem you caused is an old problem you've been carrying guilt around for a long time.

        (a) *Reconciliation: If you're feeling badly for a remark you said or act you did which affected another that was verbally hurtful or damaged another person emotionally, to see yourself in a dream feeling regret represents the remorse you now have for having done certain things.

THE ILLUSION:  To feel regret upon waking from a dream about relationship hides in an illusion of regret and sadness, the intent of the felt emotion to make you feel nearly paralyzed emotionally to do anything about reconciling the relationship. The thought of extending an apology may be obscured in your mind, because the emotion of regret blocks logical thinking.

        The message of the dream is showing you-if you're up to it-to be a big enough a person to try to make amends and apologize to another whom you offended. In this way, all can be forgiven; you'd both be feeling better about each other, regain respect and trust, and the relationship can be saved.

        (b) *Guilt and Unforgiveness: If you're hoping that another you did something against may forgive you, to see red, scarlet or crimson sky, a room or place, clothing, objects or numbers represents a greater need you have to be forgiven by the person you hurt.

THE ILLUSION:  To feel regret upon waking from a dream about relationship hides in an illusion of an irreversible problem, an attempt to convince you to think you will not be able to get beyond the unfortunate event; therefore, why try at all. The colors of deep red, bright scarlet and stark crimson represent strong emotional needs you have which you may not be aware of as yet. The dream is telling you that it is you who needs to initiate a reconciliation and apologies for causing a break in relationship. 

        The message of the dream is showing you to mend the unfortunate disagreement, misunderstanding or tense separation in relationship, to reunite with each other in a fresh start.


MEMBERS AREA
I FELT DISCOURAGED.
     *  Lack of confidence, low self esteem and self worth.
     *  Bad news you received in the dream
     *  Misplaced trust.

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I FELT WORRIED.
     *  Memory experience forgotten in the natural.
     *  Dream repeats again and again.

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I FELT LONELY.
     *  To be aware that you have a feeling of loneliness.
     *  Rejection.
     *  Healthy marriage or relationship.
     *  Getting older and feeling left out or left behind.
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I FELT DEPRESSED.
     *   Real physical or emotional problems.
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I FELT DISSATISFIED.
     *  To Someone you dislike or hate.
     *  Based on what is going on in your personal life,
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I FELT GUILT.
     *  To be accused and stand before a trial by jury,
     *  Guilt that you cannot explain.
     *  The Power and influence dreams have over our
             psyche
.
     *  Wake up with a guilty feeling.

I FELT CONFUSED.
     *  To Dreams of confusion are one of the most common
             dreams
.
     *  Confusion: Truth or Lies? 
     *  A demonic spirit of confusion can be represented by
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I WAS TEMPTED.
     *  Temptation in dreams.
     *  Someone motioning you to them.
     *  Strange unfamiliar area.
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I FELT ANGER.
     *  Defend yourself in situations in real life.
     *  Confident with self esteem.
     *  To stand up in defense of another
     *  Unfair decision.
     *  Memories, experiences and actions.
     *  To yell or speak loudly
     *  Emotional or physical act committed against you.
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I FELT REBELLIOUS.
     *  To Rebellion is our natural instinct to defend
             ourselves
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     *  To Rebellion in the natural and in our dreams.
     *  Flirting with Danger.
     *  Dreams which depict dream scenes.

I FELT REJECTED.
     *  To feel rejected in the natural, but 
     *  To dream that you have favor from your superiors.
     *  To receive unusual favor from your fianceé or
             someone you are involved with
.
     *  To receive unusual favor from your husband or wife 
     *  To walk on brown, dry, dead grass
     *  To seem to wander and explore aimlessly in a dream
     *  To be in a group or a crowd in a dream or to join a
             group or crowdp
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     *  To joke with another in a dream
     *  To dream you are eating alone
     *  To turn a blank page(s) in a book or magazine
     *  To be separated or quarantined from others in a
             dream

     *  To see or be on an island in a dream
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I WAS UNHAPPY.
     *  To see yourself or another in a dream who looks
             unhappy

     *  To yawn in a dream 
     *  To see a spindle in a dream
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I FELT ABANDONED.
     *  To see yourself in a dream as a baby or child being
             left alone
             or abandonedt
.
     *  To see yourself left alone or abandoned as a teen
              or young adultg
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     *  To see yourself left alone or abandoned
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I FELT FEAR, I WAS AFRAID.
     *  To awaken from a dream feeling afraid
     *  Threatened in a dream.
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I FELT LOVE AND LOVED.
     *   How do you recognize love in a dream?
     *  To Deep or medium blue
     *  Just as love is the strongest emotion,
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I FELT HATE.
     *  To feel hatred in a dream
     *  To feel the emotion of hate in a dream
     *  To feel the emotion of hate against a stranger
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THE FELT REGRET AND SORROW.
     *  To see yourself in a dream feeling regret
     *  To see red, scarlet or crimson in a dream
             represents

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